Another thought. co-dependency. I understand this, yet that was what marriage was supposed to bring. Two into one. We are supposed to be one, yet not. I really want to share how I feel about our past marriage. I want to it out there so I can feel some closure on the past. I cannot go forward without being honest about what I won't accept anymore, what I need. If we were under the same roof right now, I think I may be the WAS. Is that unusual? Have others come to this introspection?

MLC=[censored] to be him

empathy: putting myself in his shoes and fighting like Hell for our marriage

" I will see you again...this is not where it ends..."