Snodderly, my xh is so confused and entitled that he probably sees the card as no more than his due. He was really upset that I didn't retrieve the picture I had given him for his birthday from the framing shop where we had taken it a couple of weeks before he left me. When i suggested he could have collected it himself he said 'It was my birthday present' Sounded a bit like Gollum to me!! LOL
My goodness I can laugh now, but back then, a different story.
I still find bdays a bit sad - we always had a big family party for XH. Still I am sure OW puts together a lovely day.
