By cutting us out of their lives, our Hs are losing so much
Yes, but that isn't how they see it!
If OW2 shows up he will be polite and then leave. He was very clear that this was time he wanted to spend with his father. It would be very foolish of xh to go back on that arrangement, but both my son and I know that xh will not necessarily stick to what he has agreed to.
