sandy1212, thanks for posting on my thread-first time! I agree that disconnecting/detaching is the path that MUST be taken in order to save oneself. I really don't care what he does with OW anymore....as long as it doesn't affect me or have anything to do with my kids. So, yeah, I've come a long way with detachment.
AS. Flyonthewall, BF, newman and ruby-- I agree H is having a lot of thoughts about all the alone time he has & that things aren't greener like he thought they would be.
Tori- thanks for your continued support. You are amazing and have a special path to help others..isn't it great that our paths lead to a better us ultimately??? Tennis was awesome today--you rock!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
I agree that disconnecting/detaching is the path that MUST be taken in order to save oneself. I really don't care what he does with OW anymore....as long as it doesn't affect me or have anything to do with my kids. So, yeah, I've come a long way with detachment. 