So today was out 20th anniversary. She had asked me if I would go to dinner with her if I agreed to only focus on the good memories. I agreed and suggested we bring the kids the kids. I wrote a list of memories and shared them. I did ask for a hug, and she gave me a real nice one.
I made the mistake of mentioning a 180 I was thinking of and it upset her because I didn't do it when we were together even though she wanted me to, so I don't know if I should avoid it all together, or just wait a while.
Me-41 W-41 M-20y 2 teen sons 1 preteen son BD/ilybinilwy 6/8/13 I moved out 7/24/13