You know, when new people come on here, I sometimes tell them that though they will wish this didnt happen in the way that it did, they will be forever changed.
I tell them if they do the work, they have an amazing opportunity throughout this. And that they will come out the other side stronger and wiser.
They never believe me while they are in their initial pain.
But you are a shining example of exactly what I mean.
I am not surprised you are getting positive reactions from the old+new T. We see who you are and so do they.
And TVS is right, often when it is really quiet, the most work is being done.
Besides piecing, this part is the hardest - limbo.
You just continue to be you, and let time and quiet do its work on your wife.
