Your right your not perfect........but pretty darn smart- your last paragraph is proof of that.

I'm glad that's pounded in your head because THAT'S the win!

Just remember, she needs the time to dig deep in herself too- and that hasn't happened

ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13