How about slowly increasing the interaction between you and your W. I understand she isn't talking now, but don't let that discourage you. In my sitch, my W took 3 years before she even talked to me.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
