Yeah, definitely some cake eating.

I've done a good job with GAL. Guess that's what I need to address next.

He calls me every day, it's really weird. This is not how divorce is supposed to go. It seems very much that he feels he missed something because we have been together since we were very young...and he wants to go see what he missed...but make sure I'm here waiting if he changes his mind.

He actually said to me yesterday that he is confused as he!! and doesn't know what he wants...and that was totally of his own accord and not something I asked for.

I can tell from his comments and behavior he doesn't know which way is up...but he's continuing down this path so the comments don't really matter.