Happy Bday GTO, also agree with the others, you have to take care of yourself first.
But since you asked, he might finally be realizing the grass isn't so green after all. The first cracks in his armor are shining thru. Eventually, most of them attempt to come back in one way or another. Who knows, and who cares right now.
The choice is yours, proceed/fantasize?, give limboland another month? Only you know the answer to that question, you don't have to even make that decision right now anyways.
