Also, the hardest thing about DBing is becoming unavailable without engaging in an EA of our own. It seems the WAS wants us to not be available to desire us again. When they ask about our whereabouts, we can lie or be vague on the details. But vagueness about details seems to annoy them if they've asked. Or I guess we can just focus on not being available so they never have the chance to ask. Am I making this too complicated?
ETC
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
