Very sorry you're going through this!! Wow, what a list of problems! I can't help but wonder if your H is blaming you for the financial problems and feels like running from you will somehow change things for the better. Hard to say what he's thinking. Have you read DR? I know money is a big issue, but DR is 11 bucks well spent towards getting your life back on track. It'll give you the tools you need to deal with your sitch. in the meantime read Sandi2's 37 Rules and live those tips! Good luck!
