Originally Posted By: NLW

He hadn't contacted them because he'd left for another luxury holiday, starting in Venice!


[jaw hits the floor]

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SOMEHOW he's activated an old joint bank account of ours and its details appeared on my internet bank statements.


Get your name off that account ASAP!!! And any other joint bank or CC accounts!

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How anyone can abandon their children, leaving them destitute, and continue to spend at these levels on themselves, just leaves me dumbstruck.


He's way beyond thinking things through. He's just living in the moment, consequences be damned. It's just more debt, as long as they keep printing credit cards who cares? You have GOT to remove yourself from the equation to protect yourself!

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How can anyone do this?


He's completely and utterly lost. It'll likely be many years before he comes out of the tunnel and sees the damage he's left in his wake.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57