Hey CP, I created a new user profile as my kids had told me my spouse was reading my thread.

Question: In regards to the job, was this supposed to be in conjunction with staying together? Cause if he still doesn't know if the marriage is gonna make it, then what does it matter what job you have as far as he's concerned? How can you find out what he's thinking w/o breaking several of the 37 rules?

Is there a way, maybe the vets can chime in her with some help, a way to say my job status is the least of my concerns for the moment, I have several issues that need to be addressed before I worry about that step? I don't want to keep putting the cart before the horse. Not sure a good way to bring it up?

Try your best to get back in the hot dog line, cause it sounds like the roller coaster is taking off for another round.

I hope this post gets off mod before it becomes irrelevant.