For the past few weeks, he has been initiating much more (like 4 times a week, which is more than since we were teenagers!).
Wow, that's crazy. I really don't understand someone who drops the bomb, but then keeps living at home and ML with their LBS like everything is fine. There's really no telling what's going on inside his head. There's a chapter towards the end of DR that talks about ML with a WAS, you might want to go back and read it. If I recall, she says it's OK as long as it's not upsetting you emotionally.
