Hey MileHigh,
I just wanted to thank you for posting this yesterday.

Originally Posted By: MileHigh


but also said "nothing has changed." A lot has actually changed, because just a few weeks ago, I was the cause of all problems.



I love that perspective and needed to read that. It's easy to get caught up in what's happening today, but looking back, I see I'm also at a place where things might not be exactly as I want them to be, but at least I'm not a source of pain or anxiety for my H these days.

I hope Fri goes well, it sounds like you are in a good place going into it.


BD: Aug 2012
Separated since May 2013
S born Aug 2013
Aug 2013 H agrees to consider 'baby steps toward working things out'
H is/was actively seeing someone?