I am a Newcomer.

[KarenR]

I am sorry that you are going through this. As far as the financial issues involved you definitely want to get some legal advice. However, to work on the relationship, please call for information about talking to one of Michele's DB coaches. They are experts in helping you come up with a plan on how to interact with him that is most likely to bring him closer and not push him further away. I also suggest you read the first chapter of Divorce Remedy here online or order the book...it does have great information on it. But talking to a coach will help you immediately stay strong, be more hopeful and give you direction. Take care.