One last thought to ponder -- do you "crave" something that you can have immediately, that is always available to you, or do you "crave" something you have to work to get, and even if you do the work you may not get it. Which scenario inspires craving?

How could you possibly keep "craving" alive in a long term marriage?

What fuels most long term marriages is the memory of the craving, which can be re-ignited after arguments, after long periods of separation, etc., but it's a residual effect.


Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015