Four months since H left

[Whiterose]

Hi
ive been posting in the MLC section as my H is in full on MLC but he is also a WAH so i thought to maybe post here for some additional advice. here ae my two posts in the MLC section of the forum for some backgroud

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2368775#Post2368775

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2376322&page=1

My H pretty much wants nothing to do with me. Would be thrilled if I got hit by a bus and he could get his cash so he can "move on". It had been 5 weeks since he saw our boys, went for dinner with them last night, and his reasoning is that he doesn't have a place right now but he's texting them and its all good

I have been GAL and 180ing. My boys have even noticed the difference. We do fun stuff with our friends and family He is still very adamant he wants his cash, from the sale of our home.....doesn't matter to him where the boys and I end up as long as he can move on.
How do people find their WAS acts towards them? Do they ever come by? My H never comes to the house. Is this standard? Any advice on how to get H to see I'm working at it? Really, any advice on dealing with a WAS is appreciated.

Thank you