Just wanted to throw this in regarding God and the WAS. For years I did volunteer work on Saturday mornings for Habitat for Humanity. My W and kids have always been late sleepers, so typically when I was getting home from Habitat they had only been up an hour or so trying to wake up. I would shower and then we would go to lunch. My W asked me why I did the volunteer work and I told her the Lord had blessed us so much that it was my way of thanking Him for our blessings. After BD that was actually one of the things that she used against me, I was ALWAYS gone at Habitat and she resented that I spent ALL THAT TIME there. How dare I do volunteer work while she's sleeping in!!! The old saying "no good deed goes unpunished" really is true.