Thanks Bond, so helpful as usual. This ^^^ pretty much sums up my thoughts and sitch.

Originally Posted By: MrBond
Fear of losing the LBS may open the door but it's not enough to sustain the relationship in the long run.

This is exactly how I currently feel.

Originally Posted By: MrBond
The fact that your W told you honestly how she felt is a big thing. It shows that she's actually searching for an answer for why she feels so empty inside. The problem is that she's constantly looking for EXTERNAL things to make her feel whole when in reality, SHE herself is the only one that can fill that void. It's a choice. If she actually stopped and turned around to see you and your family and actually appreciated what she has, she will see that her life is very rich. But she's still looking elsewhere.

Exactly.

What would you do in my sitch?

What would your daily interactions look like?

How would you try to incite some passion or fill the void she's missing?


M-38
W-32
D7, S4
M-10
BD-May '12
S for 1 month-June '12
Reconcile, Piecing