Sorry about your sitch Tad. My dad died 5/24/11 and I remember my ex saying she was sorry from afar. A month later we separated. The rest is history. The one thing I know is that I didn't have time or energy to grieve his passing since I was in the middle of my own crapp and severely depressed. Spend time with her. She sounds like a very strong lady. God bless her, and you


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden