Make a list of everything there is in the house and take pictures. My ex ended up leaving lots of stuff and at the end we negotiated. Yes it will be a big change financially. Everything that is a debt incurred during the M is to be paid 50/50. Are you sure you talked to a L? Alimony is temporary not sure for how long you agreed to pay and child support will end one day also. So it is not the end of the world. I had the same concerns but things even out after about a year or so.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
