Well, he dragged me into a talk about the finances and we ended up fighting about my job and our relationship. I tried to talk to him about options and he wouldn't have it.

I am having a tough time taking orders from a man who has treated me so unkind for the past months, with no regard for my feelings. Now he wants something from me. I am sooo angry with him. I don't know if I want to live the rest of my life with him.

M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.