I was doing some reading last night and found that even the christian based blogs talk about these storms inside people as a reason for so many divorces happening within the churches. Alot of the writers suggest letters of deep apology to the WAS's mainly validating how they must feel. Again, however it's the same problems. That a WAS christian or not will not accept apologies as depression or MIL is the same as described on this board. It's just difficult to reach out to a WAS whatever theyre belief. Does this make sense? Anyways, all is quiet. Anniversary is 6 days away. Was told by D that W talked about our anniversary being a few days before hers (D's). SO I know not to say anything about anniversary.


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