180 that was my first thought to on not attending the family reunion but I had five members of the in law's telling me to attend because I am family and she is not. And if H does bring OW with him they told me to stand my ground and don't show any fear cause I have more rights to be there then she does. I know its going to be a tough day if he does bring OW but I know I will have more support from all the members of the in laws then she will. And I know that all of my in laws will have to he nice to OW but they won't accept her into the family cause by law H and I are still legally married. And if we were D I'm still be part of the family cause I have been in The family for 13 years and they will still support me more then OW. Which I'm so greatful that my in laws will support me and accept me as still part of The family. They are not very happy about what H has done. But they have to be kind to OW for now. And I already had plans to hang around my sister in laws family that day so I will just ignore H and OW if they were to show up I'll just pretend they don't excess. And if H comes by and have a conversation with me I'll just treat him like a neighbor. In a way I don't think he will bring her and I don't know if he is showing up so I will just go and have fun cause there are some members of the family I only get to see once a year. I will let you know how that day goes. I will be fine and I will have fun that day.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
