Reuben, I cant offer you any help on the alcaholism, but I think its a very positive thing that she doenst want to be the way she is and she still expresses to you how she is afraid to lose you. She really wants it to work and I think once her self esteem can be brought back, everything will be much smoother.
I thought it was just amazing how she prayed with you last night. She seems so emotional and scared so keep up the good work and be supportive just like you have been doing. Make sure she never feels as if she is a burden on you. Best of luck to you, but I dont think you need it. I think with time, God will help you.
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