Same here, my H wants to be my best friend as well. If it wasn't for this new BF that H has just got, I would say he's gone into phase 2. I would continue to be nice to him, but as for making him meals, no more! I'm not being used either!! I think it's a thin line between feeling used and them actually wanting to be there. You're dead right when you say it's confusing!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
