Hi, Kate,

Understand about your choosing to stay at H's place in the city. Glad to know you are in a different place (in your head) when you are there and why you stay there.

You have some very deep and insightful thoughts about what is going on with you and your H. And, I think you are right that H needs to distance himself from you....maybe the path away from you is the only one to lead him back to you down the road. Make sense?

Sending good thoughts and prayers your way!

BTW- I agree with you about Val's sitch (accident & all)...also, when Tori had to put emergency contact info on a form recently and couldn't think of who to put.... so sad. Perspective is everything.


M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.