The View from the Blanket VI

[littleGTO]

Hi, bustin,

I agree that you need to protect yourself from him right now. Start asking yourself what YOU want moving forward. How is your new life going to look? What do you have to look forward to?

Part of detachment is recognizing our S's for who they really are--taking them off the pedestal we've had them on- the former version of themselves.

But they are not that person anymore and will never be. It doesn't mean they can't figure out their life and the mistakes they've made along the way or that someday they could be a better person than they ever were, ... but for now they are lost.

And, it is not our job to "find" them. In fact, we can't. It is their journey and we have ours. What is your journey telling you, bustin???