I would assume that h ' s T is working on creating boundaries with his family then focusing on putting himself first. If this is correct then he just took a step forward - at your expense.

Are the two of you too entangled currently for him to take the journey of self discovery that allows him to realize just how much he loves and cherishes you. The old " absence makes the heart grow fonder"?

Lord knows you have grown so much and gotten stronger- what has he done other then jump to two women he doesn't seem to give a damn about other then being something different?

I think,right now, you are simply light years ahead of him.


ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13