Still at Square One!!!

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Had my DB coaching session yesterday. My coach said she doesn't think this man is done with me. She said this is typical WAW behavior not typical WAH behavior. Normally a WAH doesn't keep coming back to hang out if they are done. She said although my H says he is done I need to listen to his actions more than his words. I always walk away from a coaching session feeling so good and like I can tackle it all. False hope???

He invited me to dinner with him and the kids tonight. We had a nice dinner and then he came over to put the kids to bed. Then he stayed. He asked if it would be ok if he hung out until he went to our neighbors house. He is there now and said he was coming back to spend the night. I'm so confused. I would think if he wants a divorce it means he wants to be away from me not spending time with me. Confused!!!!

I am feeling like a doormat. He hangs out with us whenever he feels like it. We are friendly and even starting to be a little playful. My coach says we have entered phase 2 which is the friendship phase and to keep building on it. I feel used and feel like he is being friends with me to make this easier on himself and to ease his guilt. I will help him with this transition and make it easier on him and end up feeling used at the end.

TTD180 I will look at your sitch as soon as possible.