no more talking to him since the first confrontation.
he's not going to listen since he's convinced himself as the better choice. W is placing him as close friend. W is not stopping him from pursuing and did say it's not her fault he's like this. No guilt, no remorse of EA. An affair to her would only be physical.

I can't really leave, can I? It's not really a question of won't but how. How to make sure they are safe if i leave.

I have been GALling with a friend after work everyday. I make sure i come back with enough time to spend with my kids. Also spend some time working on my planned start-up.
I began to take my kids out without W on weekends. This W finds annoying but i took them anyway.
I do stuff for myself every weekend.


M35 XW34
D5 D4
M 6years T 10years
Bomb 5/2013
Joint Petition signed 6/2013
Moved out end of 8/2013
Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013
D finalized in 3 months - no news yet