Husband Threatened to Leave, Don't know what to do

[SoLostandAlone]

My H also started going out with friends - which he has never wanted to do because he is not a social person - for all hours of the night. I know drinking is involved, so I simply ask if he can at least text me on his way home so I know he is safe or to let me know if he needs a ride at the end of the night. That is apparently asking too much since he doesn't. Makes up reasons why he has to leave the house. To go back to work, to let someone's dog out, to give a friend with a broke down car a jump. Yeah. He must think I'm a complete moron. And since he's already decided we're getting a divorce, there isn't anything I can do about it but bide my time until our bankruptcy hearing in October and then give him what he wants - me gone - 1300 miles away to live with my sister and her family. Nowhere near him or our kids. Thanks for ruining my life.