New and need encouragement

[Not Quitting]

BTW, I found Divorce Remedy so helpful, and it will definitely give you some goals to work toward and some direction. Do you have any other 180's? Are you following Sandi's rules?

Hope you are doing ok! ((((((hugs))))))

-cp

Thanks cp. So far I've found DR helpful - I've already renewed it once but someone else has a request in for it so I can't renew it again. I figure if I buy a copy I can mark it up by making mites or highlighting - cant exactly do that to a library book can I.

If I consider socializing more as a 180 then there's another one I can try, although all my friends are married so it kind of makes it awkward unless we're doing a girls' night. I've always been more of a homebody. The only other major complaint that H has mentioned was our sex life - cant do anything about that when he's not living here and when he is around so is S13.

I've read Sandi's rules a couple of times. Gonna have to re-read and see if I can print them. I've not been good with the not initiating contact but working on it. H said we'd stopped talking so not answering his texts seems like more of the same. Still working on getting the right balance.

I'm lucky with my son. He's handling this whole thing remarkably well although I've probably been spoiling him a bit to help soften the sitch for him.