Husband Threatened to Leave, Don't know what to do

[TrentC]

He re-instated our marriage isn't at 100% cause he still has a lot of anger and resentment towards me. How do I help him get over that?

You don't. As has been stated numerous times, you can't fix and him it's not your job to try. (More to the point, stick to your changes. Only time can heal those kinds of wounds.)

I can tell he is trying and I'm trying and for the most part is feels good. But he is definitely inventions new social like that doesn't include me but includes some young single guys from work. He told me they are easy to hang out with cause they are always available to hang out with.

He likes hanging around younger guys that he has very little in common with and staying out till all hours of the night? To me, this seems like a huge red flag.

I trust him. He definitely tells me everything they do in a night but not see by this need for sudden outings.

Because people who are cheating on their spouses never, ever lie when confronted.

I almost wonder if he isn't going through some kind of midlife crisis? This is starting to sound awfully familiar. Bizarre mood swings, anger, depression, drastic changes in behavior, uncertainty about life choices, hanging out/identifying with younger people...