Now that is definitely a 180 - I'm the only driver so I've always been there if he needed a drive somewhere. Not going to happen while he's not living here and/or while OW is still in his life.
Hi Not Quitting. I think that what you have stated here is a good start! You are right that you can not be at his constant beck and call because of your situation. You have always been there for him before, but now it is different, with everything that has been going on, and he is now living on his own. I think you are right to not drive him anywhere, he is going to have to figure out how to do these things on his own.
Sounds like your son is handling it all ok, it must be so hard for both you and him. I agree not to mention OW to your son, unless he brings it up, then answer truthfully.
BTW, I found Divorce Remedy so helpful, and it will definitely give you some goals to work toward and some direction. Do you have any other 180's? Are you following Sandi's rules?
Hope you are doing ok! ((((((hugs))))))
-cp
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.
