lovenomatterwhat, we all go through this (and some may believe we deserve this) feeling of it is all our fault. Yes we have to accept our level of fault. But as the old saying goes "it takes two to tango". My W is at fault (not that I will tell her) for not telling me her feelings in a way I could understand or listen. It is not my fault what my W does now in our separation. It is not my fault if the W wants to split the assets, or not transfer back to the city or files for divorce. That is her choice, and her choice alone. My fault is the way I acted to her, to family and friends or to myself. All I can do is repair my faults or even better improve on my faults. Simple as that.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
