Lost, confused and trying to make a stand

[brobafet]

The effectiveness part of it is key and so is time. That is what I am told a lot. Time, time Time TIME TIME.

Yeah, I know...I get it, but I don't. This is really fresh, I'm in two months, and blindsided twice now (second time in 3 years). I thought things were good. She constantly told me that she loved me. We argued but it was petty arguments. Then my sister found these texts to OM and the foundation I thought we were rebuilding crumbled. She moved out (we were living with my parents and getting ready to move to our own apartment). She was gone less than two weeks, her attitude changed, her tone changed, fathers day went by and she didn't want to spend it with me. The next weekend she dropped the bomb on me. WTF?!?!

Rock, thanks for checking in on me. I'll find the book you mentioned.