That is so true Breakdown and you don't realise any of this until it hits you hard like it has done with me today I've been making myself available to my H without me realising I'm doing it. Tomorrow I've got a haircut in town and my son is at work experience. I plan to take my son for a meal afterwards in town and H said he wants to come over in the afternoon. I've been thinking that I need to get home so we can be there when H is there and he can see his son. Now I've found out that he's been going out with a friend on Sunday when he was supposed to be seeing his son so I figured I'm not going to rush home just so we can all have lunch together and if he wants to join me and my son in town then it's up to him I'm not going to make myself available to him anymore, he's got to fall into our plans in future! It does need a short sharp shock though to make you realise that you've been doing this.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I've been making myself available to my H without me realising I'm doing it. Tomorrow I've got a haircut in town and my son is at work experience. I plan to take my son for a meal afterwards in town and H said he wants to come over in the afternoon. I've been thinking that I need to get home so we can be there when H is there and he can see his son. Now I've found out that he's been going out with a friend on Sunday when he was supposed to be seeing his son so I figured I'm not going to rush home just so we can all have lunch together and if he wants to join me and my son in town then it's up to him 