Reuben, I think everything is still going fine but maybe it cant hurt for you to go out once in a while too. It just seems like you are always home to notice her being out. Other than that, it seems she is sincere bout making things work but she doesnt want to lose her new social life, even thought its unhealthy considering there is drinking involved.
I can relate because in the beggining of my break, she would make it seem like everything is ok but would sometimes me over for her new friends and that killed me so much. And eventually, my jealousy over her friends caused a bigger rift between us.
It took time but she seems to be hanging out with that crowd less, except for a few but she isnt replacing that time with me yet. I think you are lucky because things are happening much quicker in your case so be happy for that and please be patient and try to keep busy and dont try to make too many plans with her because when she is late or forgets, it causes too much stress on you. Go slower. Eventually Im sure you will be able to count on her every night!
Id appreciate any input you may have on my recent updates. Thanks and Good luck!
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