Venting is good for you, and this is the place to do it - nice and anonymous and you can't do any physical damage to anyone.

You sound like you know where you went wrong. Can you 180 these mistakes? Do you want to? Do you believe your W would believe it?

Remember, you can't fix everything but you can work on yourself.

We all have down days, but if the good days outnumber the bad one then we're doing something right.

Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks