And, for what it's worth, he replied back with:

"I do get where you're coming from and I'm sorry. I'm just not sure I want anything right now, as in I want to be alone so I can figure out what I want. That's why I said I need time."

I told him I understood and appreciated him letting me know. It feels unfair. It feels selfish (especially when he asks me to change custody time and barely sees D). It feels like he's lacking accountability. BUT there's nothing I can do about any of it except for to give him what he's asked for: space. Balancing that with keeping positive convos going will be the challenge.


Me: 26
H: 28
T:8 M:5
D:2
BD:4/1/13
Separated 6/6/13
Filed separation 6/21/13
Waiting for D papers to be served, H says filed