Today is playing out like a repeat of a movie I saw in July... You know the one were my H went from really eager to speak to me in person to backing completely off overnight? Ha. Looks like it was a little too bright outside the tunnel yesterday when he asked about lunch because he scampered right back in to his tunnel w/o explanation today.
He just texted to say he's not coming for his stuff today after all and is acting like he wants to get out of getting together for lunch this week. Fortunately I've seen this scene before and know that his behaviors and feelings change DAILY (or by the minute ) so when he asked initially I told him I'd check in later in the week to see if he's still free. Now I'm just going to "forget" to propose a time to get together and move on. When he randomly decides he's interested again we'll start this little movie over again w/ a fresh start. I'm not holding my breathe or doing any legwork to getting together. He's going to have to come to me (and want to do so for more than 30 seconds) if he wants to make plans w/ me in the future.
BD: Aug 2012 Separated since May 2013 S born Aug 2013 Aug 2013 H agrees to consider 'baby steps toward working things out' H is/was actively seeing someone?
) so when he asked initially I told him I'd check in later in the week to see if he's still free. Now I'm just going to "forget" to propose a time to get together and move on. When he randomly decides he's interested again we'll start this little movie over again w/ a fresh start. I'm not holding my breathe or doing any legwork to getting together. He's going to have to come to me (and want to do so for more than 30 seconds) if he wants to make plans w/ me in the future.
