thank you lth, I know h sees me as hanging on and trying to slow things down. I am ready to send a very matter of fact email about expenses. no emotion, no commentary. just business-like. haven't sent it yet, but getting it drafted.
thank you for the positive thoughts. I have felt better today.


M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13