The tide is turning

[forlovessake]

Sometimes I feel like our sitch is unique because I truly was not nearly as nice to H as I should have been. Nearly all of his complaints are valid in terms of my nagging, fighting dirty, disrespecting, and failing to show him love. He feels beaten down, disrespected, unloved, etc. There is a lot of truth to why he feels that way, as I took much of my stress regarding D's health problems and other things out on him, and failed to recognize that I was not speaking his love language even though he told me such. I read a lot of other posts on here and it seems like y'all are mostly pretty great people. Sure there are mistakes here and there, but I feel responsible for the bulk of our relationship falling apart. I guess that's why I feel like I'm at his mercy and need to do everything I can to not only show change, but also show I really do love and like him.