Me: "I know, I understand. But do you still feel that way now?"
Don't ask these questions. He's still done. If he ever changes his mind, you are the first person that will hear about it. When you ask you're applying pressure and WAS's HATE pressure. For now he's full-speed-ahead to D. Nothing you say or do will change his mind, only he can do that.
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Me: "I really don't want to pressure you. I love talking to you and telling you how much you mean to me. But if you still feel 100% done or think you might enter in another relationship please just let me know. Thanks. Love you."
Again, don't do that. That's pressure. And don't say you love him, and don't tell him how much you love talking to him. You're in full-blown pursuit mode. You are firmly establishing yourself as Plan B. He will NEVER come back to you as long as he knows you're clinging to him. He doesn't need to. Freshen up on Sandi2's 37 Rules, read them multiple times a day if you need to.
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It also remains frustrating that, while the way I expressed anger was very wrong, he fails to see any responsibility in his part of the cause of it
Exactly. He won't come back unless and until he can come to grips with what HE did wrong in the M and can own HIS mistakes. Some WAS's never get there unfortunately.
