Things starting in right direction, NEED TIPS!

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Well here is a quick update to last nights fiasco. My W came home around 11:30. She came in and kissed me and was nice. She offered some of her nachos and burrito to share so I got up to spend a bit of time with her.

I asked if she was OK and she said yes. She then asked if I was ok, and I said I guess so. She asked why. I said don't you know why. She didn't know (and she seemed genuine). I reminded her about our date to go out tonight. She was stunned, and said she completely forgot. I said didn't you think about me at all today. She said yes. I asked wouldn't you at least call me sometime throughout the day to check in? She made an excuse about her cell phone being in her vehicle and couldn't get to it.

She then said she felt terrible and stupid. She said she went to a bar and got f'ed up. I asked when that was and she said about 3 pm to 5pm, and then met up with friends. She said she felt as if I was angry. I sain I'm not (I had been calm and didn't really say anything to give her that explination). I told her this, and she agreed. I think she just felt thats how I should have reacted.

She then noticed her flowers and presents for V-Day and our Aniversary. She said those where the most beautiful flower she has ever gotten. She then snuggled up with me on the couch and kissed me. We went to bed and snuggled more til we fell asleep.

This morning was good, she again was really nice and we snuggled some more. We had a nice breakfast together and she continued to swoon over her flowers. We talked about what we would do today and I think she is actually going to spend it mostly with me which is good.

It just troubles me that she would totally forget me and not call. Even more so is the fact that it was because she was out drinking and it was so early. She seems to be jeckle and hide. When with me she is really great, but out alone and having fun its like I don't exsist. She still is leading two lives it seems, and I am really fearful of her drinking. (I have talked about this in my previous thread)

I will have to think about this, I think it needs to be addressed. I don't plan to bring it up one on one, but maybe in MC monday. I think she may have a problem that she isn't aware of which is alcohol.

Any words of advice would be great, I am nervious about bringing it up as our R is still in a fragile place.