I know how you feel when you get an e-mail which suggests that the MLCer's life is going along great. My xSO, after four months of nothing, texted me to tell me there were "lots and lots of change, all good" (you probably read that on my thread) and even if AJ's interpretation is correct, I cannot tell you how much it hurt me to hear that. It took all of my strength not to send a nasty text back: So, all of your changes are good, even the one where you haven't talked to me in over four months?
Bea, I also understand being gun-shy of anything that might upset the apple cart. But you know what, a relationship, even one that "just happens", has to start somewhere - and that somewhere can be a smile at the grocery store
