I tell the utility companies that H no longer lives here and if they require a signature then I get it next time I see him. NQ is right, you should only contact him about the boys now and then only if you NEED to. Don't make excuses to contact him if you don't want him to upset you. My H is exactly the same especially at the beginning. I think who's this alien that has taken my H? He has mellowed now, but that is only because I've carried on being nice to him. As someone said on here - you can's shoot someone who hasn't got a gun! Be strong K and look after yourself and those boys of yours
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
